21 Questions to Find Out If There’s Chemistry with Your Match

21 Questions to Find Out If There’s Chemistry with Your Match

Is there chemistry with your match, or are you just exchanging messages? These 21 questions can help you get to know that person better, discover their interests and, along the way, find out how compatible you are. The idea is not to turn the conversation into an interview, but to let the answers open the door to new conversations.

  • Describe yourself in a tweet.
  • Tell me the last three emojis you used.
  • What is trendy that you just don’t understand?
  • What is your favourite meme of the year?
  • Who do you reply to first: family, friends or work?
  • Do you work to live or live to work?
  • What is your favourite snack?
  • Tell me a secret that nobody else knows.

  • What three words would your best friend use to describe you?
  • What is the soundtrack of your life?
  • If you knew you couldn’t fail, what would you do?
  • Which celebrity do you have a guilty crush on?
  • What embarrassing moment wakes you up at 4 a.m.?
  • TikTok or Netflix?
  • What crazy thing is on your bucket list?

  • Mornings or nights?
  • Who would play me in a film?
  • Who has been the biggest idiot of the year?
  • If distance didn’t exist, what would we be doing right now?
  • What would instinctively put you off someone?
  • What is the worst lie you have told to get out of a date?

Beyond the answers themselves, pay attention to how they communicate, how much they open up and whether the interest goes both ways. Real chemistry is also about feeling comfortable, listened to and eager to keep discovering each other.



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